And what I said is that whether or not there are rules does not change the accepted ethics of society by which individuals are judged. Whether or not Harold deserves to be picked on is a morally loaded question that begs us to employ ethics in our answers. It is irrelevent whether or not Courtney and Harold's actions constitute cheating under the game's rules, because what we are really discussing is the ways in which they have broken basic ethical code with their actions and what is acceptable retribution if they have.
I stated that Harold did wrong by voting Courtney off unfairly. I pointed out that he has not repeated the mistake. After reflection he admitted that what he did was heinous. He was in hiding because Courtney wasn't looking for an apology; she was looking for revenge. Trent was quite aware of this when he slipped Harold the baloney and acknowledged to Ezekiel that Harold couldn't come out of hiding.
Two wrongs don't make a right, and Courtney was just as wrong to assault Harold with a lamp post. Since Harold provoked her anger, I'll give her the same forgiveness for her initial reaction that I give Harold for his mistake (and which I give to lots of characters for mistakes or one shot acts of vengence), even though physical assault is a more serious offense than vote tampering in a contest...or putting ants in someone's bed, or hooking the septic tank up to the shower, etc... Courtney never admits that violence was a bad thing in any way. To continue to punish Harold is petty, vindictive, and just as wrong as her initially beating the crap out of him. She doesn't get any more slack.
Even if Courtney never got back in the game, she has no inherent right to make Harold suffer for his mistake forever. You said, "Courtney coming back does not exonerate Harold, since he had nothing to do with it." Petty attacks from Duncan or Courtney do not change what happened or serve to resolve the situation. There is no justification for their actions. They are not judge, jury, and executioner with an unimpeachable right for eternal revenge against anyone who angers them. We do not live under some medieval system of vendetta. Nobody has such a right and continued actions against Harold are harrassment.
I don't feel that Courtney suing to get back on the show was wrong, as she was removed from TDI due to vote tampering and it can be viewed as righting that situation. In fact, I'd say she should have pursued legal avenues from the beginning to receive fair compensation for having been voted off due to tampering. That would have been looking for justice rather than revenge, which is an act of trying to restore the balance rather than degenerate into harming others. However, by trying to gain all of her "perks" she has crossed the line and has become the victimizer of all the people who are trying to play the game without having an equal playing field. There are no mitigating circumstances for her attempts to slant the playing field in her own favor through threats from her lawyers. Wanting to win does not justify poor sportsmanship and unethical behavior. I'm not going to exempt Courtney from behaving decently just because she wants to win or because there is no rule to penalize her behavior.
I've already discussed at length in my previous post the evidence that Duncan isn't picking on Harold over the voting incident but rather because he likes to pick on Harold and has since the beginning of TDI. There is no moral justification for bullying. If you don't like someone or think you're better than them, it still doesn't give you the right to make someone else suffer. It doesn't matter who is better in challenges or who is stronger. Bullying is not behavior that one has any right to engage in.
I didn't cry and moan. I pointed out how much Courtney cries and moans. Calling her lawyers has quite a lot to do with suing. That's what lawyers do for a living; they help you sue people in exchange for money. She repeatedly tries to use them to threaten Chris, such as when Chris gives Lindsay a ten. Courtney whines that it's unfair. Chris says he makes the rules, and Courtney counters in a threatening way, "I think you'll find my lawyers make the rules." When she tries to call them from the confessional trailer it's because she's upset that she feels Chris gave Lindsay special treatment for a less original costume. She says, "Lindsay may have won the first round, but I have the law firm of Fleckman, Fleckman, Cohen, and Strauss behind me. They'll make sure I win the million." The obvious implication of her words in light of her threat to Chris is that she's going to try to change the rules in her own favor by using the lawyers (the lawyers are an obvious threat to sue the show again) and they will try to disqualify Lindsay to get the Super Hero fashion win for Courtney. It is an example of her behaving exactly the way I said she would over another person getting special treatment. In a whiny fit of poor sportsmanship, she even chooses to run up and yell delightely, "Not such a wonder woman now, huh," when Lindsay misses the potatoes. She whines everytime she doesn't get her way. If you've failed to notice it, I have to wonder if you've really been watching the show.
The object of winning or the absence of rules does not negate the existence of ethics. You can't just throw out ethics from the discussion because you have no answer to the issue. We are judged for our actions right and wrong. There might not be a rule in the contest about extortion, but it is clearly wrong behavior. It's punishable by law outside the contest, and contracts based on coercion are rendered void when coercion is proven. Whether Courtney thought the building would blow or not, the other players believed. She used that to manipulate them into an illegal contract that they would never have agreed to willingly. That's not morally sound behavior. Period.
I'm not discussing rules and cheating. I'm discussing common decency. As an antagonist Courtney has none, no matter how many times you try to paint her as a poor victim and excuse her rotten behavior with flimsy excuses about it not being against the rules to behave badly (while still condemning Harold for anything you can find or twist). You refuse to actually discuss Courtney's morals as evidenced by her actions, and you try to use the rules as an excuse while penalizing other characters for actions that were never shown as against the rules either.
I never said it was against the rules to hit Duncan in the nuts. I said it was unethical. I said that she's a nasty individual who is not above tricking her boyfriend with a kiss and then hitting him in the nuts just so she can win a challenge. If your girlfriend pretended she was going to kiss you and then hit you in the groin during a competition, I bet you'd think it was pretty unethical. I don't negate her win or her ability to win. She won that contest, but from a moral perspective it was wrong and bad sportsmanship. She could have just let go of his wrist and pushed him. Duncan was already off-balance. The object of the contest was simply to get the other person into the tar. The nutshot was a rotten thing to do. It's called hitting below the belt.
Since you can't change the truth, you simply try to rationalize actions under flimsly excuses and ignore everything you can't think of excuses for. Bad sportmanship is bad sportsmanship, not having a rule against it doesn't make it right. That's the truth.
Harold kept his promise when he said he wouldn't leave his used underwear lying around anymore. He rescued Heather from the beaver dam even though she had just betrayed him. He refused to betray his alliance with LeShawna (until Courtney tricked him into thinking LeShawna had broken it already and planned to vote him off). He forgave Duncan for being horrible to him throughout the war challenge. When Duncan told Harold that he did good, Harold acknowledged that the team did good instead of taking all the credit. He doesn't get his jollies by belittling others. He doesn't contsantly try to change the rules to suit himself or act vindictively.
Saying he has mad skillz isn't unethical. It's not contrary to conscience, morality, or law. He's not harming other campers or treating anyone poorly by saying he has mad skillz, and he doesn't even say it all the time around people. Much of his mad skillz talk is done inside confessional. He's not treating others in a way that he wouldn't wish to be treated himself. Other players have acknowledged the fact that Harold does actually have mad skillz for dancing, lockpicking, figureskating (how he dodged the dodgeballs), sandcastle building, and beatboxing, and num-yo's. Neither Gwen nor Trent ever said he was unethical towards others, and it could easily be viewed as a mistake for them to have overlooked Harold's skills. He outlasted both of them. Even Duncan admitted that Harold has mad skillz at dancing and with the num-yos (under the cover of LeShawna's fart).
Unhygenic isn't the same thing as unethical either. Owen is a fart machine who doesn't believe in showering, but he's still a nice person. Harold picks his nose in his sleep, but he's not going around wiping it on folks as a prank or anything like that. He was initially reluctant to admit that he'd been wrong leaving his used underwear out; but he did admit it, apologized, and kept his promise not to do so any more. So far the boy is shown as a character who generally learns from his mistakes.
Those are the type of actions that make him a protagonist. Saying he tries to behave ethically doesn't mean he never fails or that he's some perfect "paragon of virtue". I've never called him that. It means he tries to be a nice person and is generally a sympathetic character. In the show he's set up as one of the good guys this season.
Courtney and Duncan are behaving as antagonists. They are not sympathetic and they generally behave poorly to others. They make good antagonists, but they are what they are.
You whine and complain about how Harold must perform penance for being unfair to Courtney, yet you excuse Courtney for using her lawyers to secure unfair advantages in the same paragraph. Neither were established as breaking the rules, but both are unethical. You judge Harold according to an impossibly harsh moral code for a single infraction that he hasn't repeated, but throughout your post you excuse continuing immoral action from Courtney by judging her against a background of the games biased and nearly non-existant rules instead of employing the obvious context of right and wrong with the exact same standards as you apply to Harold. You are the one employing a double standard. Unethical behavior is unethical behavior. Stop making excuses.