there is no way that can be true.?? there have been numerous references to metal bending in episodes (see above comments) and in "the guru" episode.?? the fire nation specifically heats up and properly smelts thier metal to prevent metal benders from tearing them a new one.?? i will admit though i'm curious if toph can still metal bend fire nation metal.?? she is even more unique than other benders so mabye she still can because of the way she sees.?? that uniqueness can't have been forseen in firenation smelting processes to prevent metal bending.
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a better question though.?? why metal bend when you can diamond bend??? in the "crossroads" episode aang covers himself with gems that are laying around and the mini tent to enter the avatar state.?? isn't it then possible to bend the hard known substance and launch it at various things or do major damage??? are the impurities there?