Actually, I disagree with your 2nd statement. Aang is comforted and learns from Katara. But Aang has nothing to offer Katara, except being her hope for the saving of the world, which isn't a romantic offer (he gives that to everyone). Aang can offer a loving relationship to Katara, but as of this point in the series, he offers nothing else to Katara. She doesn't learn from him, she isn't comforted by him....kataang is a give-give relationship from Katara's side, but Aang gives nothing back. For example, when Katara mentions her mother. Aang blows her off, and she never speaks about it to him again. Obviously she needs to talk about it - she tells Haru, Jet, and even Zuko, for crying out loud. She needed comfort, but Aang couldn't give it to her. she went to complete strangers, and left herself open to them. She made herself vulnerable trying to get comfort for something that Aang should be able to provide comfort for. But he doesn't. Katara gives and gives to Aang, but he gives nothing back.
That's how I see Kataang, anyway. Maybe there's some evidence of Aang giving Katara something (comfort, understanding, teaching her something), but its nowhere near the scale that Katara gives to him. The only person on par with Katara in a give-take relationship is Zuko, because their interaction has been limited. he offered comfort about her mother, she offered comfort about his scar. Yes, he then betrayed her, but Zuko remains the only person in the group who's given something important back to Katara. Thus how their relationship is mature - its actually a give/take relationship, unlike most other relationships in the show (its also mature due to the themes of forgiveness etc, but thats not my point here, lol). Everyone else in the gaang (and practically the world) has benefited from her (Sokka, Aang, Toph, etc), but they never give back. They all seem to take her for granted.
And now, because I believe I'm repeating myself way too much here, I'll stop there
Edited on 06/22/2008 5:36pm