I really, REALLLLLLLY, hope Ursa is dead. 'Say "no" to the death, no their alive! , cliche'
. It recks all the development that Zuko has made other the last circa 9 years. Hes had to learn to deal with the loss of his loved ones but still find happyness (ie iroh), learn resolve from his quest for the avatar, and control of his own destiny (ongoing). Being told by his mother; "now Zuko, u play nice with the bald, arrowed boy" and "I love, even if Daddy doesn't, so turn that frown upside down" WRECCCKKKKS his character developement and his third lesson of his destiny (Season Three). Its the search for his mother, I hope, the journey thats important in his final descision to help the Gaang and take the throne (poss' also his own journey to Spirit world; okay to talk to mum there i suppose, purfer Ruko with a only little Ursa ie "I love u, im proud"). Being told what to do is not fair to all of us fans who have watch Zuko's quest for answers, rather than him choosing the Red dragon of his own will, despite and in spite of Ozai's wishes.