Let me get this right as I'm studying psychology:
Zutarians see themselves as either Zuko or Katara and model themselves after her or him. Then they see either as "hot" and want them to be together because when a boy for example models himself in Zuko, they want Katara to be with him because she is the one he loves and so will want Zuko to do the same and vice versa for female Zutarians. And that boy doesn't want Mai to be with Zuko because Mai is unattractive to that boy.
I'm confusing myself with the way I wrote that, it's just that I'm sick (medically not mentally)...
Edited on 03/08/2008 2:15am