I realize this will probably fall on deaf ears, or more likely will simply be pushed down by the rush of new topics following the finale, which I must say was perhapse one of the greatest episodes of any show I've seen.
My message is this. RESTRAINT. Restraint for all fans of all ships.
To Kataang people: Yes, Zutara did not happen in the finale, they had a moment, but well...you know what happened.?? Try to realize that everyone else saw the same show you did.?? There is no need to gloat, throw things in peoples faces, and most of all to flood the boards with topics of: "Zutara is dead, Zutara falls, down with Zutara, ect, ect".?? Also realize that your own ship is still not nesessarily 100%, until both parties come out into the open with the feelings you can not be 100% sure of anything.?? Supporting your ship is fine, but realize that other people may have different preferences and like different pairings.?? Its not wrong to have a different opinion or point of view, so please show some courtesy to your opposition the Zutara shippers.?? They are just as much a fan of avatar as you.
To Zutara people: Zutara did not happen yet, deal with it.?? That does not mean it might not happen, feel free to keep up hope for your ship if that is what you enjoy and it makes you happy, until the end of the series we will not know anything for sure.?? The only thing we know is that the writers obviously love to seriously screw with our heads.?? But my message is again one of restraint.?? We do not need the board flooded with rallying calls to fellow shippers or cries of Zutara will rise again or anything to that effect.?? We also do not need massive arguments pointing out every small detail that might hamper the support of the Kataang platform.?? Try to realize that Kataang has just as many fans as Zutara, except it currently has a lot more support, its not the end of the world though.?? You still have an entire season to go, a lot can happen in 20 episodes.?? Feel free to support your ship, but try to do it in a calm and refined manner.?? Kataang fans are after all, Avatar fans just like yourselves, and they deserve to enjoy their opinions.